tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23844104.post6350415945388912553..comments2023-08-02T08:22:02.651-04:00Comments on What IF?: 9dp5dt - Beta ResultWhat IF?http://www.blogger.com/profile/17296831848220411473noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23844104.post-12586700132229075682009-03-10T17:10:00.000-04:002009-03-10T17:10:00.000-04:00Platitude suck. I've gotten to the point of shovi...Platitude suck. I've gotten to the point of shoving people's platitudes back in the well-meaning faces.<BR/><BR/>It's good to try to find the good in the ashes of the bad, but sometimes so very hard. Will you meet again with your RE to discuss your options?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23844104.post-17684732334559037382009-03-10T15:32:00.000-04:002009-03-10T15:32:00.000-04:00I don't think there is anything I could say that w...I don't think there is anything I could say that would make this alright. But know that we're thinking about you, sending you lots of hugs, and trying to see the positive right along with you. That's the best thing to do...albeit ridiculously hard.<BR/><BR/>Hang in there.Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03929532974271442167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23844104.post-92111221165039012802009-03-10T11:01:00.000-04:002009-03-10T11:01:00.000-04:00This is my first time on your blog and I wanted to...This is my first time on your blog and I wanted to come introduce myself. First of all, I want to say how sorry I am that this cycle didn't work. I know that pain all too well. I will be following your blog and you cycles. Best of luck to you!Nicholehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01897510280288314268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23844104.post-38379191433146288352009-03-10T10:52:00.000-04:002009-03-10T10:52:00.000-04:00So sorry to hear this. IRL friends can say the st...So sorry to hear this. IRL friends can say the stupidest things sometimes. Hang in there :)Megshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05719447256602731053noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23844104.post-53311130957763656412009-03-10T10:46:00.000-04:002009-03-10T10:46:00.000-04:00I am sorry. My heart breaks a little more everyti...I am sorry. My heart breaks a little more everytime one of my fellow sisters gets a negative. <BR/><BR/>((BIG HUG)) If was anything I could do to make it better, I would. <BR/><BR/>Sending you peace.Chellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02462827829231769285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23844104.post-6044285118377649762009-03-10T09:22:00.000-04:002009-03-10T09:22:00.000-04:00i'm so, so sorry. i cannot tell you how many times...i'm so, so sorry. i cannot tell you how many times i've heard those things from people who got pregnant without even trying. they have no clue.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23844104.post-32854412766971695952009-03-10T00:27:00.000-04:002009-03-10T00:27:00.000-04:00I am sorry for this crappy outcome. I know nothin...I am sorry for this crappy outcome. I know nothing we can say will take the sting away, but I am thinking of you still and cheering you on from over here. HUGS.<BR/>CarrieCarriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08249032117071588918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23844104.post-66402685185910937202009-03-09T23:20:00.000-04:002009-03-09T23:20:00.000-04:00Hi there--just found you via the ICLW list. So sor...Hi there--just found you via the ICLW list. So sorry about your BFN.<BR/><BR/>Our first cycle starts next month...I can't even imagine how stressful this will be.'Murgdan'https://www.blogger.com/profile/00740095971968567222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23844104.post-2473317287396071472009-03-09T23:08:00.000-04:002009-03-09T23:08:00.000-04:00BFNs SUCK ASS!!!! I am so sorry. I wish I could be...BFNs SUCK ASS!!!! I am so sorry. I wish I could be there to cry with you and give you hugs.<BR/><BR/> I was telling my best friend today- no one knows how we feel. Unless you have been there. Even among us IFers- we all are in different places of grief, excitment, # of times we have done it,etc. At least with fellow IF-ers we understand the lonliness of it, and the unique pain it causes.<BR/><BR/ME!https://www.blogger.com/profile/04165329812645814943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23844104.post-1198911913261379262009-03-09T21:57:00.000-04:002009-03-09T21:57:00.000-04:00I am so sorry too! I was away from the internet an...I am so sorry too! I was away from the internet and missed this transition from maybe to no and I am so sorry-- your response was really good and I think it bodes well for a future cycle if you choose to have one. BUt for now, please take care of yourself- I agree with anofferingoflove, it is really unfair after all that effort and all that good luck (sperm!)- and I wish you nothing but good Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12533501052787233233noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23844104.post-18779422387148024832009-03-09T21:01:00.000-04:002009-03-09T21:01:00.000-04:00i am so sorry. bfns after ivf are so $*%&^ un...i am so sorry. bfns after ivf are so $*%&^ unfair. <BR/><BR/>those platitudes really sting - i can remember every single one people have ever said to me...<BR/><BR/>sometimes saying nothing is better.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23844104.post-29487652784889115062009-03-09T20:35:00.000-04:002009-03-09T20:35:00.000-04:00I am so sorry. I shudder when I read the things th...I am so sorry. <BR/><BR/>I shudder when I read the things that IRL people say - I shudder even more thinking I probably said those things years ago...in plain ignorance and I should have looked into being a better friend...<BR/><BR/>I really liked your post - you had quite a few good things going for you. I have to say - this is my third full IVF - it gets easier in some ways and harder in Meinsideouthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10001196898695554746noreply@blogger.com